Today is my second daughter 9th birthday. After getting up from my bed and do my daily morning routine I wake up my kids to be ready for school and greeted my birthday girl a Happy Birthday. Today I celebrate this day too for pulling all my courage and strength when i gave birth to her. Eventhough i undergone CS it wasn’t that easy for i encountered the same problem when i had the normal labor with my eldest, bleeding to death. Chances of 50/50 to survived. Same with my second birth, but since i was CS they easily see the caused of my bleeding and saved me from the same encounter. All of my family were worried and scared especially my hubby and my mom.. Gladly i have a strong faith in God that He will never leaved my side to keep me safe. Prayers worked. I safely deliver my child. Never felt so blessed and happy now seeing her growing into a smart, kind, peaceful, God-fearing, thoughtful, loving and understanding child. She is a precious child. Im thankful to my husband for his DNA (laughs) our combination is great. Produces good character and beautiful features. I am a proud mother. I am truly blessed. I pray for her to continue do her passion in art, writing, and reached her goals in life. I only wished her abundant life full of love from the people she love and care too. I can see that she is a responsible being. Looking at the little me in her. I see my self in her, all these habits, likes, attitude and way of thinking really same as me when i was little. I wonder if she will have same mind like me now. But i hope and pray for her to achieved more in life. Be bolder, courageous and stronger than me. I wished her success in her profession whatever she chooses to be a doctor, a teacher, a lawyer or a writer. I will support her and guide her to be a better person. That’s also my goal to all my three kids. So let’s celebrate life and live it to the fullest. Happy birthday to you my baby girl Sayuri!🎂🤗💋💋💋
Happy Marriage Tips for His Needs Her Needs
The rest of this page is dedicated to providing very helpful resources and tips for a happy marriage that will assist you in building your marriage relationship and helping you discover that you too can have and enjoy a happy marriage, as you work on meeting his needs, her needs. So enjoy this priceless collection of information!
Also, if you know anyone who’s interested in strengthening their marriage relationship, home and family, or anyone you believe needs some knowledge to help them with their marriage, or marriage pursuit, feel free to forward them this website’s information. Also encourage them to visit often. It’s time for marriages to succeed, as we commit to meeting his needs, her needs.
Happy Marriage Tip #1:
Getting the benefit of the doubt is one of His Needs Her Needs
If your partner does something that offends you, such as, break their promise to take you out on a date, stayed out too late, you noticed them conversing for quite a long time with some lady or man, was suppose to help you with some task, but didn’t or simply didn’t do something they gave their word on, and you are yet to hear his or her explanation for your observation, do not conclude on something negative, but give him or her the benefit of the doubt to explain their reasons.
When your mate notices that you would always hear them out first, without running into conclusions with a grumpy story, they will be more forthcoming with the story or reasons and do so more relaxed, knowing you haven’t told yourself a negative story about the situation. Also, when you do this, make sure it is not mere lip service, but let it be obvious that you genuinely would prefer to hear him or her tell you about it, than to believe something negative in your mind. By doing this, you are meeting one of his needs, her needs, which is to be heard out. So exercise some patience. Do this next time.
Happy Marriage Tip #2:
Going the extra mile can be meeting one of His Needs Her Needs
Taking time and putting in a little extra effort to do more than your spouse requested and expects, more often than not, meets some of his needs or her needs that were unspoken. Say for instance, guys, your wife asks you to help her with the dishes one evening, and you went ahead to wipe down the counters and stove as well or ladies, your husband asks you to help him with the packing of his luggage for a business trip, and you went ahead to slip in a love note with a spritz of your perfume.
These little extras could be so appreciated, you won’t believe it. Just imagine how it would feel if you were at the receiving end, or if “acts of service” is his or her primary love language. And think about it, isn’t it a wonderful feeling that of your own accord, you decided to do a little more than requested or expected? So, whenever you have the opportunity to lend a helping hand, take some time to think of how you could go the extra mile for your sweetheart!
Happy Marriage Tip #3:
Falling in love daily meets one of His Needs Her Needs
You can keep your marriage relationship with your partner really fresh and vibrant by falling in love with him or her on a daily basis. Things like taking turns to plan date nights on a regular basis and mixing in activities that you know are some of his or her favorites, would really make date nights something to anticipate with pure delight. Also, having new things to do each date night will keep this time together fresh and full of suspense. I believe everyone appreciates a pleasant surprise whenever one is given, so keep that in mind as you think of unique and creative things to do.
Now, many of these dates don’t necessarily have to involve spending lots of money. It can be absolutely free as you attend your local parks and the historical sites around you. Also, you could simply rent a video to watch together. Giving a shot at something new together such as, learning how to play a game like table tennis (a.k.a ping-pong), golf, tennis or other things like, taking dance lessons or trying out a foreign cuisine. The primary goal here is to spend “quality time” together, where you’re doing just about anything, which might be one of his needs, her needs.
Happy Marriage Tip #4:
Unwinding together is one of His Needs Her Needs
After a long day of job responsibilities or getting lost in the hectic world of work and catering to family commitments, spending time together to unwind or decompress after dinner and before bedtime, is a great way of connecting and bringing back those affectionate feelings for each other. Discussing the good, the bad and ugly events of the day is something you should consider an important way to end your day.
Your partner will love this, as you both make it a daily routine. This will help you both look at things together and strengthen each other as you put them in proper perspective. An area of his needs, her needs will certainly be satisfied as you practice this. Do it today!
Happy Marriage Tip #5:
His Needs Her Needs – satisfied by Embracing Your Differences
They say it is usually the unique traits of your partner that attracted you to them at first, that ends up driving you crazy. Now, that does not have to be the case when we learn to embrace their differences, love those differences and express our appreciation of the fact that he or her is different in that way from us, and that we are not embarassed and never will be ashamed or put down by their uniqueness. It could be the way they laugh, walk, talk or react to situations. Now, this is not referring to say, dressing in a provocative manner in public or some extreme situation that is a product of immaturity.
A sense of security is established in their heart, knowing you have fully embraced who they are and have no plans of getting them to change or else. This sense of security is definitely among his needs, or her needs, especially for the ladies; this is certainly one of her needs. You need to give that assurance of security. Admiring his or her differences can help your marriage relationship remain interesting. Honestly, you are really beginning to love your spouse when he or she does something that is way difference from your style, and you love them for it. Think about it.
Happy Marriage Tip #6:
His Needs Her Needs Could Be The Little Things
It is a quite remarkable fact, that water, at 211 degrees is simply hot, but at 212 degrees boils. Just that additional degree makes all of the difference. Similarly, just a little more of something, sometimes makes a lot of impact. It could be a simple touch, such as a gentle squeeze of a shoulder or arm as you pass by your mate. This will usually be well appreciated, as it conveys a meaningful message of love and caring. Do this sometimes, and you will be satisfying one of his needs, her needs.
Something else that could have that same extra-degree-effect and meet one other of his needs, her needs, can be simply expressing appreciation for a kind, selfless gesture done, such as, when he opens your door, or when he or she hands you a plate, or similar acts of kindness. These gestures should be followed with a kind word of appreciation, which shows we notice and appreciate the little things, and that speaks volumes of our sense of respect and politeness. And since this is a marriage relationship, where there are no hidden agendas, receiving and giving compliments should be done freely.
Happy Marriage Tip #7:
His Needs Her Needs: Respect and Love
For a man, respect is the most important thing he values and for a woman, love is the most important thing to her. And so, if a man senses his wife was being disrespectful, he will react in an unloving matter. On the other hand, when a woman senses her husband has just acted unloving, she will react in a disrespectful manner. And the cycle continues.
I strongly believe that when you speak a man’s primary love language, he senses respect or sees it as respecting him. The same goes a for lady; when you speak her primary love language, she senses that as love. So for the man, when you sense disrespect from your wife, ask yourself the question, “did I just act in an unloving way?” or “in what way did I just act unloving?”. And for the lady, when you feel your husband acted unloving, ask yourself, “did I just act disrespectfully?” or “in what way was I just disrespectful?. Asking yourself these questions, and answering them will help you identify those little things that can lead to conflict, and start learning to avoid them.
Now, to break the cycle mentioned above, you will have to go out of your way to respond differently. Men, you will have to respond lovingly even after sensing disrespect and women, you will have to respond respecfully, even after sensing an unloving attitude. This will end the cycle and get the respect and love flowing again. As you do this today, you will be undoubtedly meeting his needs, her needs.
Happy Marriage Tip #8:
His Needs Her Needs: Optimism and Reassurance
It is always astonishing to see how pessimistic people can be sometimes. Honestly, when they walk into a room, you can feel the depression or despondency. Now, on the other hand, when a person who tends to be appreciative, hopeful and confident about the future or the success of something, walks into the room, you feel your spirit or confidence raised by their presence. Both of these feelings are brought back to one’s mind long after the person leaves the room.
So the food for thought is, which of the two are we: The voice of discouragement or the uplifter of the lives of others? If we are not at the place we would so much like to be, in the words of H. Jackson Brown, Jr., it is possible to “Become the Most Positive and Enthusiastic Person You Know”.
It all goes back to the stories and thoughts we allow to be created in our minds. No matter what is going on in our lives, as long as we still have reasons to be thankful and grateful for something and make that our focus, we can be the lifting power in the lives of others. So, as an example, the next time you get back home, and walk through the door, thinking about the things you are thankful and grateful for, would keep a pleasant expression on your face. Your partner, seeing that expression, will sure be uplifted, and you will be meeting his needs, her needs, for optimism and reassurance
Forgiveness is the key to free ur self from guilt and pride. U dont do it for others but for urself. Forgiveness is the act of great love. It is never given without love be it for urself or to others.
I had learned that we can never live in peace if there is even a little hatred or grudges in us.. even when you think you had everything you can never be in peace and be truly happy.
So lets be kind and forgiving to others that offended us not only for their sake, but for ourselves too. I admit we are just human and tends to hurt others and be hurt. But wouldn’t it be a better world if we can practice forgiving and giving chances for them to grow and repent on what they’ve done to us.
The life we have is not in our control.. we can die anytime at any place. So instead of planting bad habits and hurting others and urself, lets do the most of our life and live better for everyone. Clear ur thoughts of the negativity in this world, and emit a light of possitivity to be a reflection to others. Just like a genuine smile that lifts u up for the whole day. And the laughter without holding it to burst out.. such freedom to do so can be achieved when we forgive and be forgiven. Keep calm and always pray for God’s guidance.🤗😄😇🙏
When we arised to decide living in a peaceful way instead of causing and being in trouble with ourselves and to others we win the battle.
We should learn to control our emotions, we often react on things that doesn’t really make sense or matter most in our life’s.
The purpose of our life must focus on God, following the laws and commandment in order to live in peace and harmony with everyone.
And if your a non-believer, you can follow the laws on moral, the good values and principles of life. Be humane to others.
We are all human in the same. We all have feelings and we all have this needs in common, these are peace and love.
If we have love in our hearts we feel sustained and full of energy, we feel happy and we feel the need to share it with everyone specially those who are dear in our hearts.
Peace leads to happiness because you dont feel intimidated, you dont feel lonely, you dont feel isolated with everybody and you dont feel in trouble.
When your in peace there will be no place for pains, frustrations and disappointments. You can only love and be loved.
But when peace is absent in one’s life, it triggers the feeling of anxiety which leads you astray and gets your mind always wondering what went wrong or what is lacking..
Inner peace is the key in all the things that gives us good and best of everything.. It provides us the deepest desire and needs of our heart.
Without it everything can fall apart. Even love, it wont exist there if you are not peaceful with yourself and to everyone.
So try and learn to meditate, pray to get control of your emotions and you will be in peace. Peaceful life is the root of all the love you can gain and give. So live peacefully.
That’s all and peace be with you!💕✌
God bless everyone.😇🙏
#repost by Life-story
Modern-day life brings us many factors that weigh us down mentally, physically, and spiritually. If these negative aspects of life are allowed to take over and become all-consuming, we can become physically ill or even say or do things to others that could, in turn, be harmful to them thus spreading the poison of negativity. Therefore, it is imperative that we all learn to take care of our own mind, body, and soul. One way we can work to lift the burden of negativity from our shoulders is to be aware of how actions bring consequences. More specifically, we can practice the laws of karma and let that guide us to a life of peace.
Karma is basically an understanding that good becomes good and bad becomes bad, and life is a constant exchange of cause and effect. As we practice the law of karma, we can find inner peace which will give us better mental clarity, better physical health, and also be extended outwards to help others improve their lives.
10 Laws of Karma
THE FIRST LAW OF KARMA – THE GREAT LAW
Known as the Law of Cause and Effect, this law basically says you get what you give. In other words, if you project positivity and happiness to others. Then, in turn, you will receive the same.
THE SECOND LAW OF KARMA – CREATION
Things, both good and bad, don’t just happen. Therefore, create the good and positive things you want to see in your life.
THE THIRD LAW OF KARMA – HUMILITY
Be accepting of the good and bad in your life. Do not dwell on the bad, otherwise those negative feelings associated with it will remain with you.
THE FOURTH LAW OF KARMA – GROWTH
Understand we only have control over ourselves. We cannot change our surroundings, be it people or our environment. We can, however, change who we are in our hearts and minds.
THE FIFTH LAW OF KARMA – RESPONSIBILITY
If something feels wrong, most times the conflict is within ourselves. We represent what is around us, and what is around us mirrors us. Therefore, we must take responsibility for the things in our lives.
THE SIXTH LAW – CONNECTION
Everything in the universe is connected. Even if something seems insignificant, it must be completed as its completion will lay the foundation for the next step in life. Each phase of a project in our lives is equally important as the one before or after it.
THE SEVENTH LAW – FOCUS
One can not truly focus on more than one task at a time. Attempting to do so will open the door to negativity; therefore, staying focused on one thing at a time will bring us peace.
THE EIGHTH LAW – HERE AND NOW
Dwelling on our past prevents us from truly living today and from achieving new personal growth.
THE NINTH LAW – CHANGE
We are destined to repeat history until we learn the lessons needed to change our paths in life.
THE TENTH LAW – PATIENCE AND REWARD
All rewards in life come at a price. True peace and happiness come from doing what we are supposed to do and patiently waiting for the reward as it will come to us when the time is right.
BENEFITS AND TIPS TO PRACTICE LAWS OF KARMA
Following the laws of karma has many benefits. Ultimately, it will help you de-stress your life, which will also help improve your health by lowering blood pressure and controlling stress hormones that wreak havoc on our bodies. It will let you view the world with new eyes as the dark veil of negativity is vanquished from your life. You will also be able to spread peace and kindness to others which will start a cycle of positivity for everyone.
TIPS TO PRACTICE LAW OF KARMA
In order to effectively practice laws of karma, you must remember a few simple basic concepts:
1. Be kind to yourself.
2. Be kind to others.
Do not beat yourself up over things you can not change. Keep the circle of kindness, sharing, and love in motion so negativity is blocked from everyone that circle impacts. It does not take huge acts to accomplish this. A smile and a friendly nod or sharing a drink of water with a thirsty stranger are simple enough to brighten the day. By following these tips to practice law of karma, happiness and peace will become abundant and infectious among all creatures in life.
Been thinking about freedom as a person. Despite our status in the society, gender, age, single or married, being a parent, a sibling, being a child or adult. Inspite of all the responsibilities we have in our family, to others and to our self. We can still live freely and be happy. I guess it all matters in the mind.
For example, being in love with your other half or someone you love so dearly that feeling makes you happy already. For me love is given unconditionally. If you love someone you will accept him/her for all that he/she is without any judgement. We keep an open mind towards this certain person and we accept the flaws on his/her character. For me, its not the things that you do or did that makes me love you, its because i love you for who you are. So no matter what you do or what you did in the past are all accepted and forgiven. Anyone can make mistakes, even i make mistakes but the point is its the person itself that you love and not the things he/she did or doing.
When someone truly loves you and they know what you deserved they will be the one to adjust on you and change whatever hinders their relationship towards you. They will changed themselves on their own and its not you who need to make them changed themselves. They will do what makes you really happy because they love you more than they can afford not to loose you. Same goes with what you can do to make your love one happy. Loving is not a sacrifice it is in the giving of love we tend to misinterpret that love is a sacrifice because you are sacrificing your own happiness. Well that is not really love, if you are not happy for your self then how can you show it? How can you give it? How can you truly and genuinely love? Love is a feeling that gives us freedom. To choose our decisions, our partners to be, our life to live, and the journey we want to go.
When there is love, there is life. And life should be live with freedom. Its God-given gift to everyone. So lets live life with love.
One thing that i wished for is happening. Lately I feel more calm and contented. The sweet words i got from hubby when he say I love you put my mind in peace and heart jumping. This joy that i feel is part of the best that is yet to come. All those sacrifices, worries and fears of losing the love we had was once again back to how it was before. And love is sweeter the second time around. I can never be thankful enough to God for hearing my prayers and answered it in time. I am blessed to have a family living together in one roof and caring for each other. Our kids are growing fast and being a responsible children. I hope and pray that all the changes we are facing are all for the better and happiness of our family. As time passed by, our marriage growth had been more open and mature. We learned to cherish and love each other whole heartedly and genuinely. We are not just a couple but bestfriends indeed. I wish we could continue to being transparent and our almost perfect relationship this time could last forever. Were lucky to find each other to be partners for life. I love you beyond the universe. No matter where we go, wherever and whatever life throws us we must always hold our hands together in facing it. No retreat, no surrender.